#1 Reason Relationships Fail

Male / Female Energy in the Astrology Chart Even the most cursory look at a basic Astrology book will show the importance of masculine and feminine energy in life. There are two female and two male elements in the chart, each element is repeated three times through different modalities. (Cardinal, fixed, mutable) The four elements in the Astrology chart from the densest to finest are: Earth and Water (female) — Fire and Air (male) — LET’S LOOK DEEPER.

Earth shows our physical body as well as all things that are practical, useful, tangible and material. Our life unfolds through our physical body and its needs are the most urgent when they arise. The element of Earth will remain at rest unless acted upon by another force or object. Earth provides the tangible structure for which our life unfolds, but it may also be the stagnant quality that prevents our life from moving forward. Earth rules the sense of smell.

Water shows the flow of our senses into our environment and the deep emotional connections formed. Water is related to our feelings. Water and Earth together creates growth, in the form of plants. Plants provide food and sustenance for all creatures as well as oxygen for us to breathe. Water gives a connection to love and feelings, which gives rise to a caring heart and a compassionate life. Water rests upon Earth and nourishes it, just as the senses feed, and love nourishes, our body. Yet water may make us cling to fantasies, memories or emotions. Water rules the sense of taste.

Fire shows our passions, drives, motivations and digestion of all sorts. As water feeds the body, fire digests what it is fed. Earth and water creates plants; fire is hidden in the plants. Not only is food digested, all information and sensory stimulation must be assimilated and digested. This process of digestion creates heat, warmth and light that illuminates our path; or this fire may burn us or others or create smoke that obscures our path. Fire rules the sense of sight.

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Air shows our thoughts, philosophies and motion of all sorts. Fire disperses into the air, into the atmosphere. The food we eat, after its digested leads to movement of all sorts, both in the body and the mind. Air is related to the breath, the prana, the vitality. The motion of air can have a worthy goal and bring great understanding or it can be scattered and devoid of meaning by disturbing our peace of mind and emotions (Think of air creating waves on water). Air rules the sense of touch.

Space (ether) is related to pure consciousness, the witnessing self, which is not identified with the previous four elements. Space is the container of the other elements; everything exists in space. This is why we are able to perceive our thoughts, watch them move and witness them. If there were no space between our thoughts or no space operating behind them, from what vantage point would we be able to observe them? Space rules the sense of hearing.

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Female Energy wants to stabilize, sensitize and nourish us, just like Earth and water. These qualities of life are fundamental to any actions that come later. If we’re disconnected from our deeper feeling nature and our stable grounded connection to the Earth, our actions (as shown by the male signs) will lack sensitivity and meaning.

Male energy wants to assert, comprehend and protect, just like fire and Air signs. These qualities of life are necessary if we are to grow in truthful identity, strength and understanding. Lacking a clear purpose and consistent powerful actions, our life will stagnant and lack meaning.

People have all four elements within them, both physically and psychologically. Yet in relationships, women will generally have an affinity with earth and water traits, feeling more comfortable when energy is stabilized, sensitized and nourishing and when they can use their heart to feel into a situation.

Men will generally have an affinity with fire and air traits, feeling more comfortable when acting, protecting and using their mind (intellect) to rationally understand the world. This dynamic is also relevant samesex couples, where the more domestic partner embodies the female Energy, the more career-oriented partner embodies the male energy.

These powerful gender types come together in a relationship and either work for or against it as we will explore.


Talk Soon, Sam 

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28 Comments

  1. Anonymous

    Thank you Sam . This was an excellent lesson on relationship . Can you please make more videos of the same topic . You are amazing ?????

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    • Sam Geppi

      you are welcome

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  2. Dr. Tapomay Ghoshhajra

    Relationship is the main reason in finding out the strength of the planet concerned while analysing the horoscope.

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  3. Anonymous

    This is very interesting and I subscribe to your teachings as a former level 1 student. However, my husband and I have been married for nearly 20yrs, together for 25, and we have a solid, happy, best friends, passionate relationship, although our chart flow shows woman to man energy flow with his moon 9 spaces from getting to mine. A mitigating factor might be that we have a lot of synchronicity in our charts, with 5 planets in the same signs. Also, we’ve been consciously with Amma for 14yrs so perhaps She’s been mitigating this incorrect flow as well. (??) My husband had been very solicitous, interested, and engaging toward me overall, so I do find this curious, but am grateful that we somehow seem to be the exception 🙂

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    • Sam Geppi

      Thanks for writing. But you are not “the exception” – the energy is there. But no, it not every single thing that could ever be said about a relationship. Synastry (5 planets in the same signs) is very important .. working as a “conscious couple” is important, Kuta points are important. But the energy is there.

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  4. Amberlynn Adams

    Thank you, Sam! So spot on! Absolutely the light at the end of the tunnel! Very helpful and healing! Signed, an incurable romantic!!!

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    • Sam Geppi

      sure!

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  5. Cheryl Cummings

    What does it mean if they Moons are equal distance apart?

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    • Sam Geppi

      Will do a video on this to explain further

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  6. Cheryl

    *the Moons

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  7. Fabian

    Awesome! So clearly explained!

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    • Sam Geppi

      great!

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  8. Anonymous

    Yes but what do you do when his moon is Capricorn and mine (girl) is in Sagittarius….Is the relationship doomed?

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    • Sam Geppi

      It shows the energy I described.
      “Doomed” is a choice people make. But usually it shows a lot of stress on the male / female exchange that either breaks the relationship or puts pressure on it.

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  9. Brad

    Hey Sam
    Thanks for this
    How about when the Moons are in opposition ?
    eg His Moon in Libra
    Her Moon in Aries ?

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    • Sam Geppi

      Will do a video on this to explain further

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    • Sam Geppi

      thanks! stay tuned

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  10. Esmeralda90

    Great video! So just for clarification, if the moon is in the 3rd house in one person’s chart, and in the 10th house in another person’s chart, regardless of signs, the 10th house moon responds to the the needs of the 3rd house moon quicker, right?

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    • Sam Geppi

      It has to do with signs, not houses in the each individuals chart

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  11. Trey

    Hi Sam, loved this. What about the moons that are equidistant? I’m in a loop with a cap moon man and I’m a cancer moon woman.

    Thank you.

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    • Sam Geppi

      Will do a video on this to explain further

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  12. Lauren

    Thank you Sam, what you say makes a lot of sense. And like Trey would like to know more about moon in opposition and conjunction. Is the elemental mixing of energies more important than the sign gender? I’m a mula moon 🙂

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  13. Hira S Khan

    What if both man and the woman have moon in the same sign?

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  14. Anonymous

    i get it folks.
    I will make an update to explain it

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  15. Anonymous

    Thank you very much Sam, well spoken and very clear.

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  16. Jasmin Saghi

    Sam, what is if the woman‘s moon is in pieces and in the 12th house.

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